Thursday was my birthday!! Which means I ate cake, got pampered and did a bit of reflecting on what I want for the next year of my life. I guess it’s a little like new years resolutions but without the guilt if you break them. Reflecting on what I want for myself in the next months is something I’ve never really done before, but the time just feels right.
So, lets get into it!
1 . I am learning (and loving) how to be unapologetically myself.
2 . I want to wear whatever I want, no matter how wacky, weird or boring without fear of being judged, because my opinion is the only one that matters when it comes to my appearance!

How cute was my birthday outfit?! I love that jumper and accessories so much!
3 . Not feeling guilty for any food I eat or workouts that I don’t do.
4 . Be proud of myself for my little achievements.
5 . I want to schedule away at least one day a month for a selfcare day.
6 . Continue to push myself out of my comfort zone and try more new things.
7 . I want to read more books, I love reading but struggle to find stories I get sucked into, so I am on a mission to find some new books!
8 . Learning to love my hair when it’s natural and style it without heat.
9 . Continue blogging as it has brought me so much joy, and I love being creative!
10 . Giving people compliments when I like something about them, whether it’s a piece of clothing, their personality, attitude and/or anything really. It’s always nice bringing a smile to someone’s face, and you never know how much of a difference it can make to someone’s day.
Well, that’s what I’m going to be doing for this upcoming year, and I can’t wait to see what it’s going to throw at me! And I cant wait to see where I’m at in another years time.
So here’s to being another year older, wiser, happier and more comfortable in my own skin. Have a great weekend everyone!!
Love,
Loved reading this Victoria. One i like is to wear whatever even if you stand out. I love being original when i dress xxx
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Thank you! Me too, it’s something I’ve just started doing it and it’s so freeing not worrying about what other people think!🤗xxx
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Happy belated birthday. These are all great goals to strive for. Wishing you great successes as you get more out of your comfort zone and grow. You look fabulous on your bday pic.
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Thank you so much!! ♥️
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Happy belated birthday, I hope you had a lovely day! I really enjoyed reading this post and I hope you succeed in all of your birthday goals! I also love your outfit you wore on your birthday! So cute xx
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Thank you so much! Xxx
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A very belated happy birthday. I love how you’ve taken the time to reflect. One day a month of self care sounds like a great idea and something I’d like to try myself. I love your birthday outfit especially the belt.
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Aw you’re so sweet, thank you! The belt was really cheap from primark, I think it was only £1 🙂 xx
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I’ll have to check out Primark! Thanks for the tip. x
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Happy belated birthday, Ms. Victoria! I hope you had a wonderful day and hope you’re have a wonderful year. I love the reflection in this post and it’s probably something that I should start doing as well. Thank you for the great example and I hope you continue blogging too!
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Thank you so much! I definitely will x
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